Day 2 of the awareness month 🙂 I hope you are all keeping well.
Our second Endo warrior is the graceful Amina Mohammed. I met Amina for the first time late last year during a Yellow Endo Flower meet up. She is a sweet spirited fighter.
My name is Amina, I am 27 years old and an early years teacher. Working with kids and being near the sea bring me joy.Where it all beganMy periods started when I was 12 years old. From the first day I had painful cramps which were accompanied by throwing up and a running stomach.I remember being house bound for the first couple of days of my cycle because of the pain. I always had an old bucket for throwing up next to me, when it got too much, I just camped in the bathroom, with the cold floor easing my pain. All this time I knew that periods are painful and what I was going through was normal.In primary school, I heard a story that gave me some hope; people said that if you have painful periods, when it’s time to give birth your labour process will be painless.
When I was 19, I started getting constant sharp, stabbing pains in my abdomen, that’s when I knew something was wrong. I was referred to a gynae and she sent me for a scan and when the results came out she told me I had Adenomyosis and that I would have to be put in to early menopause. Imagine the trauma my 19 year old self felt, the first time I go to a gynae and she says I have a strange sounding disease and the treatment is menopause!
After a while I decided to seek a second opinion and that’s when I was diagnosed with Endometriosis. The new doctor explained it well and I had my laparoscopy where he found many endo lesions on the left side of my pelvic wall. The recovery went well until I started Zoladex injections, the side effects were awful: hot flushes, mood swings, and depression. Eventually I finished the treatment and I finally got some relief.The thief withinEndometriosis has stolen my energy and I am constantly fatigued to the point that I have to force myself to get out of bed.AloneEndo made me feel so alone because I felt that no one understood what I was going through. Fortunately, last year I found a very supportive group of ladies in Endo Sisters East Africa. It was such a relief to finally meet people who understand endo and get me.My strugglesI also struggle with bloating when I eat the wrong things, recently I bumped into a person I had not seen in years and they thought I was pregnant.I am working on the endo diet, I’ve given up dairy and red meat but my biggest struggle is wheat – I just can’t seem to give up bread and chapati.My lessonsI’ve learnt that no matter what, somehow I can get through the pain and dark times. It’s also really comforting to know that I am not alone, a support group is really important. Something that I learnt from you is to be my biggest advocate, that is still a work in progress but it is awesome advice.
My favourite flower is a rose because I believe that the thorns represent the struggles we go through and despite the thorns, the rose still blooms and becomes beautiful.
Thank you for sharing your story with us, Amina. Keep fighting and inspiring.
You can read the first story in this series here.