Day 19 🙂
“Our goal is to make Endometriosis a household name.” ~ Michelle Lee Walters
The reason we share our stories is so that other women will know that they are not alone. Though some symptoms may seem peculiar, we need to understand that Endometriosis cannot be put into a box. It presents itself uniquely in every woman.
Boldness, courage and strength are words that can be used to describe Saum Hassan. She is a 36-year-old who lives in Kisumu and works as a counselor for a preventive Healthcare Provider. Her heart is filled with joy when she positively impacts other people’s lives. She has been living with umbilical endometriosis for the last one year.
I started my periods in 1995 at the age of 13 and I was excited about it. My peers used to sit and gossip together and call you a child if you hadn’t seen your periods. I was happy that I could now enjoy their company. My menarche was smooth and I felt normal even though a few other girls would complain of cramps. Then, things changed in October 2002 when I was woken up by a sharp pain in my lower abdomen. I lay on the floor, writhing in pain as I literally screamed the house down and woke up everybody in the house. I saw my elder sister walk out and return with a small tablet on her palm and a glass of water. I took it and felt the relief wash over my body ten minutes later. I slept well and thought that was the end of it. Little did I know that it was just the beginning of a new journey altogether.
In the following months, I experienced pain accompanied by nausea, vomiting and loss of appetite. I gave birth in 2010, and when my periods resumed post delivery, they were worse than anything I had ever experienced. My frequent visits to the hospital didn’t bear fruit as the Doctors told me that the pain was normal.
I resulted to self-diagnosis with the help of Google when I started bleeding from the navel every month from March 2017. Just thinking about dressing my navel was very challenging, but I am more comfortable doing it now, since I have been doing it for a couple of months. During my research, I learned about Umbilical Endometriosis and my story was aired on NTV in February 2018 and K24 on 7th March 2018. As a result many doctors have confirmed the diagnosis though I am yet to go for a laparoscopy to get a proper diagnosis.
To treat the pain, I have been using Ibuprofen, diclofenac, and powergesic at home. When I got to the hospital I am given diclofenac and buscopan injections and also morphin intravenous. Sometimes, a towel dipped in hot water and a hot water bottle help to relieve the pain slightly. Drinking ginger and black pepper tea also offer some relief.
Endo has robbed me of my sense of fashion. I no longer wear skirts, trousers and anything clothing that puts pressure on my waist, due to the constant pain around the abdomen and navel throughout my cycle. Physically, I can’t stand for a long time because my legs start shaking. Sitting is also a problem because I can’t sit straight or lean forward. My social life has been affected because I have to keenly watch what to wear during those bad days and the days after my periods.
I’ve had to make several lifestyle changes including changing my diet. I have reduced my intake of red meat and sugar. I drink a lot of water and have ginger and turmeric water every morning on an empty stomach
Eight years later, I am still trying to conceive as I hold my marriage together. Sticking to my new diet seems daunting, at times I ask myself if I will really be able to manage it.
Through this journey, I have learned that Endometriosis is real! Women to take reproductive health seriously. More awareness is needed to reach more women and young girls. Sharing stories inspires others to also open up. Doctors should be well equipped with the knowledge of how to help women facing this issue.
I have found a good support system in the Endometriosis Foundation of Kenya. I have joined both the Facebook and WhatsApp groups and found women who have encouraged me. I realize that I am not alone. It’s important to have a support system, because that’s where we get strength and hope. I’ve been encouraged by the other endo warriors like Elsie Wandera, Njambi Koikai, and Ciru Muriuki.
My favourite flower is the Sunflower. Its brightness throughout gives me light and no matter how dark this endo journey may be there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Thank you for sharing your story with us, Saum, and for being bold enough to speak for the women who are suffering in silence. We pray that you get a diagnosis and treatment, and that you will have adequate grace and strength for the journey ahead. By God’s grace, may you hold your child in your arms soon. We are praying that a cure will be found soon and that the suffering of women will come to an end. Here’s to more happy and peaceful days ahead!